I prefer gifting others to gifting myself too. :)

Totally with you about the two bingo options. I do like the random selection idea, but there are way too many DNWs that I'd have to opt out of. That's such a good idea, having the fandom suggest prompts for a smut bingo card, as long as there's still a way to opt out of some. They could be general enough to fit different pairing choices and, like philomytha suggested, include kinky prompts so generously provided by canon. :D